Ok my turn to calm someone down, The good thing about this board is what goes around comes around.
Take a breath. It's nice to know your H's friend cares enough to talk to H. It really makes no difference what he is telling them now. The truth will come out. What a way to start a relation ship with the OW family. LIES. VENT VENT VENT but don't SNOOP SNOOP SNOOP it only hurts you more. And hurts your PMA. I have been working on my marriage without W's help for the last 3 months and am just now noticing changes. It will take time. As you can see from my yesterdays post I too have problems but every one here helps keep us going. What ever you do in the heat of the moment make sure it does not force an issue and can't be undone. Believe me one day you thing you are at the end and the next day something new happens and gives ya hope again.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
