Not much to post realy , W has been a bit more distant since last week and has reversed a few of the baby steps . My PMA has been a bit average as well and I was realy missing her last night. But a boundary was set and I think its understood now that while she is welcome here , she does not live here and does not get to call the shots or criticise how I do things. This is distinct from the realisation that its her house as well as mine and she has full access to the kids when ever she wants.
Living elsewhere was her choice entirely.
Hopefully I will have something positive to post in the future
