So long friends

[MonicaP]

NM, have you ever heard the expression..."carrying a resentment is like swallowing poison hoping the other person will die"?
Don't turn the anger you feel at your wife onto yourself. Your wife was cruel and acted from what I believe to be a very sick and shameful place. Please don't give her any more power! Look yourself in the mirror every day and say "I love you exactly as you are". Do it everyday, even if you're embarassed (or worse, even if you don't believe it) and in time you will see the beauty and worthiness in you that your loved ones see.

DO NOT GIVE UP. Stay here and share what's happening so that you don't have to carry it all yourself. We know what your going through. We can love you until you can love yourself.

Hey, I don't post on other people's threads very often, but your message struck a cord. Please don't stay away. Who the hell wants to go through this &*^% alone!

Sincerely...