Edie, The truth is I have been on top of this fence and on both sides of it. Like my old counselor said a's need to be ended decisivly. From experience, if they are not they reapear even a year later.
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Doesn't want a divorce. H said he loves me and doesn't want to live without me. BUT he also said that he loves OW. He said he cannot live a double life of lieing to me and seeing her. Loving two woman at once etc.
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I just want the guarantee that he is really here for good and that 3 months from now I'm not going to go through this again. Have any of you ever experienced this?
He needs to make this decision. If he ends it he doesnt even need to speek w/her again, counselor said sometimes no words mean more. I am worried for you. Did he end it? If so how did he end it?
