Why should men marry (According to Deida)?

[fearless]

But Deida also makes it clear that if she does not desire you, don't let that bother you, but instead, DUMP her and try again.

Where does he say this?

Here's what I found in "The Way of the Superior Man":

Page 63: "A man gets resentful and frustrated with his woman when he is too afraid, weak or unskilled to penetrate her moods and tests of love."..."A man shouldn't tolerate bitchy and complaining moodiness in his woman, but he should serve and love her with every ounce of his skill and perseverance. Then if she cannot or will not open up in love, he might decide to end his relationship with her, harboring no anger or resentment, because he knows he has done everything he could."


Page 151: "This is exactly what a mediocre man does: He stays with a woman or project as long as they interest him and turn him on. When the excitement seems to wear off, he moves on..."

Page 151:" although both of you are playing into this downward spiral of endarkening depolarization, you MUST NOT blame her. A superior man always assumes complete responsibility, knowing that ultimately, he has no control at all... He acts with impeccable courage and persistence, expecting NOTHING but the inherent feeling of completeness he enjoys in the fullest giving of his gift."

page 153: " Sometimes you must move on, to another job or another woman. That's fine, IF it is a true movement of growth: clear empowering and an aspect of ongoing giving of your gift. But, MORE OFTEN THAN NOT, your first impulse to move on comes when you have ceased invading the moment with your fullest capacity to give and are instead DRONING along, coping rather than creating"..."rather than deciding to move on because you are TOO WEAK to overcome your own neutralized lack of desire, try to take on the challenge of manifesting love in the dreary world and in your dreary woman."