Yawmom, the reason why one thread is suggested is that it helps folks understand/track your situation and be able to give better suggetsions. This is especially true if you have a question. I usually let one thread die out if I start another.

As far as conversations...it's going to depend on your specific sitch. You may want to consider the 180ing advice. If you listened a lot before, be busier now. If you didn't listen so much, try listening more now.

One thing that I do think is true but has been very hard for me: try not to show you are angry.

At any rate, I also like to see a summary of the sitch in the signature--can you say a bit more about yourself.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D