ANM, Keep thanking God and feel gratitude for ANY positive baby step. That will pave the way for more of the positive things. Ignore the fact that he cancelled dinner. Your H really was very very kind to help you with the gas. OW came along probably because she insisted on it. I think it made your H feel good that he was able to help. It was an opportunity for him to be the hero to his wife and family, even if he doesn't know it himself.
It really is a a blessing in disguise their moving in together. It will definitely accelerate their splitting up. Keep praying the hedge of protection prayer, in positive language! Love, PH
