So, I "think" these are recent positives:
Surprise bouquet of flowers
Doing certain housework that he hates doing
Pulling up a chair so I can sit next to him at a party - more than once.
Waiting for me on our walks instead of walking ahead of me
Complimenting my physical "assets"

Recent negative:
No attempts at physical touch - odd...

I'm still sooooooooooooooo confused that at times I don't even know what to say or how to act.. At those times, I either ignore him or hug him - right or wrong.. who knows??