Just read what you asked about Retrouvaille re counselling. I'm not sure whether one is better than the other but from what you have said in an earlier post about your H not coping too well with IC when it got too close to him seeing things he didn't perhaps like about himself, then perhaps the Retrouvaille may be a better option.
There is a lady called Sara who posts on here and has had a really positive experience from Retrouvaille and another person called Pony Girl who also found it very interesting. They both seemed to get very different things from it but it seemed to help things along.Try reading their threads.
Hope that helps.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
