"OW will question why your H is always willing to run and help when you call. She will get jealous of the phone calls, the visits and will eventually wonder just how she fits into his life knowing that she does not have his full attention.

I agree with BND, H and OW moving in together will be the beginning of the end of their relationship. Don't give her a minute of your thoughts as that is one minute she doesn't deserve."

Yep, I agree.

Seems me and H, and H and our kids are in constant communication these last few weeks and it is accelerating like crazy for very valid reasons.

Since my H has been living with OW, you would think she would get tired of it but her prize is still my H and for whatever it is worth, in her eyes, this is a contest to see if I will cave and file for a D which is not going to happen. I have God on my side, have finally found peace in all of this and don't really think about her as she has no future in our lives and she is not a part of our family.

God will take care of these OW in His time.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19