I'm glad to see you are feeling better. As long as you are clear on what you want and never lose faith in God's plan, your wish will come true.
You see, you running out of gas happened for a reason; it was part of God's plan to see you and your H together; to test your faith in Him; to have OW there to give YOU the strength you need to continue to stand.
OW will question why your H is always willing to run and help when you call. She will get jealous of the phone calls, the visits and will eventually wonder just how she fits into his life knowing that she does not have his full attention.
I agree with BND, H and OW moving in together will be the beginning of the end of their relationship. Don't give her a minute of your thoughts as that is one minute she doesn't deserve.
Focus on you and God will do the rest.
Hugs, ISLH
Me: 49 - S22 & S26 H: 41 - No kids M: 10/00 Bomb New Year's Day 2006 H living w OW 01/07; have baby 12/07 D final 07/07 Thread #9 - Hope Lives On