OK Morgan, you have time to GAL with the visitation schedule, so you need to take advantage of that free time and find things to occupy your mind besides your marriage.
Think big and go for larger GAL activities. The more obsessing over your M, the more GAL you need to do. Your probably the type that needs lots of bells and whistles to keep you occupied, interested and entertained, so go for it. Find something that requires you to focus all your attention on and allows you to stop thinking of your H.
The only way to break out of that limbo (which everyone is familiar with) is to super size your GAL activities. You want to get to a place where your to busy and or occupied to care what H is doing.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
