so what do you tell her when she asks about your life? does she push for details, like my h does, or do you evade the questions and she finally stops asking? are you forthright and tell her you aren't discussing it with her? just seems like no matter what I do, it doesn't seem to work with H.
I'm no longer standing as you are, but when I was, a good rule of thumb was that I avoided saying anything that might cause conflict even if it was something very innocent on my part. You have to be careful what you say, because they are going to look for anything they can blow out of proportion and say... "look at her actions, this is why I'm leaving her"! Keep responses short and sweet with yes and no answers. If I felt she was being disrespectful to me with her accusatory line of questioning, I would tell her I was done discussing this or that with her.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
