It is finally out, he wants a D

[CMNM]

Well, looks like you get another month. I hope that you will use it to do something proactive instead of more of the same.

I can't lie- I am disappointed that I took all of that time to reply to you and this is what you come back with.

I wish you well in your endeavors to "keep" your H.

I just want you to know that the reason I popped onto your thread was because I can see so clearly what you cannot right now. I have been through so much of it. I wasn't here to antagonize you, to bother you, or to hurt you. I was sincerely trying to help.

Best of luck to you.

I will leave you with this. I hope you will think about it.

I never have gotten the impression that you want anything more than the stability of a marriage. Don't get me wrong, I am sure you want more than that, so I guess I should say that the impression you give is that you would be happy and relieved if he would just say, "I am not leaving." That, HSS, is a recipe for disaster.