Braveheart--I didn't think you meant anything bad. You're too great a guy for that! I just wanted to clarify.
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In our last conversation, I told her I WAS TO BLAME for everything, it was all my fault, she was totally justified in everything she did, incluing leaving me to raise the children, that she had been screwed over by everyone her entire life! LOL
Ya know, this is interesting. MY counselro--the one who went Stood through her husband's MLC, not the Divorce Sounselor Sweetheart and I saw--we have an appointment for next week, but will likely cancel. Well, my counselor said she did that...reflected back to her MLCer. PErhaps not quite with a confession of repsonibility, but with apologies and such...She projected back... And with that he flipped the other way...hey why are you apologizing... Interesting.
RCR, When I told her that, I didn't really believe that I was the one to blame for why she did what she did! LOL I just said that so she would shut up! Anyway, when she and I were in counciling, our M.C. told her that she was projecting everything onto me, that she needed to work on herself and how she treated others, of course this was the VERY LAST thing she wanted to hear, and concequently, she quit M.C. shortly after. I wasn't making any apologies to what I said to her, on the contrary, I just want her to go on her way and leave me alone. As I said before, you just reach a point where you just wash your hands of it all.
