Edie, I'm sending hugs your way. I know how bad it hurts. My sitch isn't good at all right now, I'm going through a divorce. The best advice I can give is give him lots of space. Don't question him. Go about your own life. Don't make any threats. Let him come to you. I pursued too much. I just wasn't strong enough. Be stronger than me.
Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon