hmmm...am I playing a game? I don't know. I'm home again. missed calling the kids for bedtime last night (I did talk to them earlier, and I'm sure they weren't missing it, it happens from time to time). H called 2x, I just missed the call. well, missed the first one, ignored the 2nd one (long after the kids were in bed).
normally the kids are back by around 9am on sundays, and I slept in today, so didn't call figuring they'd be back any minute. H just called in a snit try to figure out what was going on. I had told him I'd be back by drop off time on sunday, and was calm (and a bit yawny) and reminded him of that. he said he didn't know, since he couldn't get a hold of me last night. I think he actually thinks I went out with someone.
is that a game? who knows. but who cares, right? I've been very clear...if/when I choose to start seeing someone, I will let him know. and he made it clear that he wants me to. so when I catch up to him, I guess that will be that.
as to why he is acting pissy, well, I'm guessing it has more to do with lack of control over me...its not his business what I am doing right now. again, I told him I'd tell him if/when I start dating, which is more than he does for me, so what is there to complain about?
gee, aren't I the person who claims to hate games? well, I do, but wtf, I feel like I'm backed into a corner here. am I supposed to just tell him every single thing? or is letting his mind wander/wonder a good thing? I'm not lying to him, haven't lied about anything in fact, am being so straight forward, but at the same time, I guess he thinks in terms of himself...he would lie/etc, so he assumes I am.
any advice?
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