I was just readin the chapter on OLDER women in Deidas book. I think what Deida was trying to get men to realize in that chapter is that women essentially wear out and can not do what much younger women do, and in a way, we should look for OTHER features in our wives. I just get this sense from his book that what he is trying to get men to do is to LOWER their own desire level so that the women can actually handle us. Everything he does seems to try and get the man to focus on something OTHER then sex, and to be a LD man would really help this.
