Heywyre:

Why are we trying to DENY the real goal of Deida men. Deida men pursue their own life goals, but do so hoping that they get their reward, which is a woman that desire them. If they don't get their reward, they are happy. If they get their reward, they will be FAR happier. SO the ULTIMATE goal is in reality to be a Deida man WITH a desirous woman.

Is there a way for a man to achieve the HIGHEST levels of happiness without a desirous woman? Please tell me, I would do it in a second.