What I don't understand about Deida is that he wants us to achieve our happiness on our own. If the was possible, I would be doing it. And if this was true, then I don't understand why men would need woman at ALL in their lives. Having a woman that desires you causes an incredibly high level of happiness. If I was capable of achieving this level of happiness on my own, I WOULD BE FREAKING DOING IT. But this would mean that women would have no real purpose in mens lives. But this is NOT true. So in effect, men NEED women. The desire of a woman can not be replicated in any other way, and I can't think of any goal in life that is SUPERIOR to the desire of a woman.
