Waltzing again -one decision at a time!

[Yoyowife]

I wonder if you could get separate mainteance agreement without having to file.I have the paperwork I just have to finish filling it out. My H filed for divorce. I didn't file for divorce because I kept hoping he would change his mind and then #2 if he wanted it I wanted him to pay the legal fees. My lawyer put this stipulation in it when she answered the letter from his lawyer. Check with your lawyer about the separate maintenace.

I understand what are you saying that you feel you need to get divorced so that you can move on with your life. Even though I still love my H and wish with all my heart we could work it out, at this time I just don't see that's possible. We've been separated over 9 months now and he has filed and he's still with OW, so I think it's time to move on. I want the oppurtunity to live my life for me. If I meet someone nice I don't want to have to worry about bringing them into this mess.