He kept saying he doesn't know how to get from where we are to where it's good. He said that several times. And he was very genuine. He really has no idea how too. When he left the house I took his hand and kissed it. And again he said his comment.
He is thinking about you and the family, that is a good thing, would he ever go to counseling, maybe not now but down the road?
Originally Posted By: sadhearted
I guess I should also say our S3 locked the door when my H said he was leaving to keep him here. This went on for probably 15 minutes. He kept saying I don't want you to go no you can't go I locked the door. My H told me he's breaking my heart.
I wonder if I could bribe my son to do that when I am suppose to be leaving her place.
Originally Posted By: sadhearted
Oh and during this trip there was once when he hit the top of my head, he put his hand on my couple a few times, when we stopped during the trip he put his arm around me and kinda of squeazed and then kinda of joking shoved me a little, he backed into my on purpose once. So there was some touching by him.
I think normally that might be a boundary not to cross, but with everything I can remember you posting, let him.
Originally Posted By: sadhearted
I just don't know. I don't want to get my hopes up. The trip had it's bad and good moments. He gave me the impression just maybe it's not over. But he could stop talking to me next week or the week after. I'm just glad I was able to be there during his time of mourning and there were actually a few positives that was made.
Your right, he could stop talking next week, don't push or ask. Just let it flow from his side right now. Baby steps ya know !
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
