My friend and her family left and now the house feels so empty (5 extra houseguests for 5 days). It was great therapy!!! Haven't laughed as hard in years!!!! She has been my friend for 17 years and I can tell her anything and everything; she listens and validates my feelings!!!

I went against your advice and we did spend time on the boat. H did the pursuing, though, not me. I wonder if he wanted to show our friends he was still a nice guy??? The kids loved being on (and in) the water and it was actually relaxing for me. I can be around H when other people are around and not feel stressed; just can't be alone with him....especially when he wants to talk about money.

I appreciate the reference above to refer questions to the lawyer. I hired a lawyer for a reason.....now I need to use her!

Still thinking about my goals. Number one goal needs to revolve around believing in myself and my worth!