Hi indybyathread, your sitch sounds similiar to mine except that my H is having an affair. but I think hes having a MLC too. He got an apt. about 3 mos ago and I found out about the A then too. He doesnt wear his wedding ring anymore either. My son 13 his heartbroken. Ive been trying to GAL too. Me-43 h-49 S-13 M-19 years together -29 years