because it makes a man feel just as bad to think his wife looks at sex only as something to "put up with" in order to get hugs or "romance" or the other things she wants.
I used to feel somewhat bad, somewhat ashamed; I had a higher SD, but no more. It is about the difference in SD between BB and me.
if an opposite poll had been conducted, with the conclusion that "most men want to be with their wives in order to screw them, not to hold them, and only held their wives in order to have sex." But that is what some of the women my age and younger think. That is till the H has ED or dies, then the H was an angle sometimes.
I do wish more HDW's stories would be voiced. I think it would change some LDW's opinions or at least get the LDWs to think about what they might be missing or what might be wrong with the R.
Some women and men don’t see why couples do oral sex and think it is totally gross. Some guys insist the W swallow if she gives her H a BJ. Others say gross.
Some people just don’t understand or accept anything other than their preference or what fits in their belief system.
