Another difficult weekend. Just not sure exactly what I should be doing. We are both in the same house and I try to just make small talk with him and all I get back from him is an annoyed attitude. I have been avoiding all R talk and trying to do what I can to just have normal conversation here & there. Should I stop trying that as well? Then we would not be speaking at all. I think I understand where he is coming from with respect to his doubts in our marriage, but I don't understand his anger & annoyance to me. An example, earlier today I said "wow - it sure is hot out there, huh?" (It is 93 degrees out). He responds "No, not really, I am actually going to go for a run". Who disagrees when someone is just trying to make small talk about the weather? Through this process we still have been leaving notes for each other or letting the other know if we are going to be out, but when I got home he wasn't and there was no note. He got home about a 1/2 hr later and I was like "Did you eat lunch?" And he said "No", So I said "Oh, I thought that is where you might have went". And he said "No". I did not push or come out and ask him where he was, not like I need to know, I was again just trying to make conversation & be polite. Before DDay this is totally atypical behavior for him/us and it almost seems like he is just purposely trying to be cold. Doesn't he know how difficult this is on me as it is?
