HW Right now, sure, I would say I would like it everyday. But once I got a steady routine of that, it might cut back some weeks to only a couple of times and then the following week nothing and then the following week back to everyday.
That sounds about like the mental camp I am in.
It's my opinion, once sex was not an issue or a problem, the daily stuff would fade a bit.
I know for me and a lot of other people on the forum, 8X a month would be a big improvement. Especially if BB wanted it as much as I do.
Like a lot of other people, quality, doing it because both people like it and giving and accepting sex is so much more than just "N" times a month.
I could do it more with BB if I pressed the issue, but knowing it is not something she wants to do that often, just kills my drive sometimes. Other times it turns into a mission and my drive is in the forefront. I try to do it for us, but sometimes have to do it for me when I feel BB isn’t on board.
