Hey FLTC, it's good to hear from you a bit more. Of course many of us old timers here think and pray for you and your men in Iraq. If anything just posting occasionally let's us know you are safe.
So I think you should at least once chat with her briefly and say something like you just wanted to say hello to her and leave it at that. Think micro baby steps here. Her comment shows there is some caring deep deep down inside her. Just foster it with a bit of positive, nice actions and words on your part. Just be very careful at first and make it nothing more than a "wanted to say hello."
Be safe my friend!
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
