shmagic I agree with Cemar ask her for a HJ and watch her reaction if its a no then you have your answer. I bet a HJ is gross/immature/not an acceptable form of sex/something perverts do/simply wrong, to his W. That is what BB indicates to a degree.
Of course, some people who don't feel the need for sex, think it should be that way too for the spouse.
Anyone else hear "lets give up sex for the summer and wait till it cools off in the late fall" when the bedroom is air conditioned?
AC, I know what you mean throught all of the last post. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other. Live a day at a time.
