Hey LIN - just stopping by to check in. I know it must be painful to have your D and W gone. The bright side is that your D is part of you, she belongs to you as much as she belongs to your W. Your W having your D will just provide that much more opportunity for positive interaction between the two of you. Even if you and your W divorce, you will ALWAYS be in one another's lives because of your children. Use this to your benefit and to the benefit of DBing. My H and I don't have children and he has even said that if we did he may not have done the things he did (wishful thinking, I know, and he's the one that doesn't want them). My point is she can't just disappear into thin air with your child. Your D won't let that happen - you will always be her Dad and she will want you in her life.
Hang in there!! Edie
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley
