Well i've done some thinking over the last day or so...I'm not sure there is much left to DB as far as my M & R to my W go..Of course for myself, I continue to move forward. W has agreed to come & talk about the money etc as I told her that we both need to make a fair agreement that is good for both of us.
This is my opinion on the matter & it would be good to hear if you think i'm being unreasonable...
Ok, I can offer her 1/3 of her share of the equity on this house now in cash, that would pay most if not all her debts. I would like to make her the offer of 2/3 the equity if I should ever choose to sell or should I remarry ect..Of course I/we would have this set in legal terms with the help of a lawer.
Her excuse for wanting the equity is because she's not living with OM for free she still has to pay half of the living costs etc...Thats fine & I understand...However, I am not living here for free either & there is just me paying for an house I can just about afford.
Anyway back to my R sitch & whats left to DB...It would appear that since my little meeting with my W last week, when I gave her the mail that I had. She seems to have had a change of heart regarding our initial argeement with this house. I think she saw that I am looking good, even if I have to say that myself lol..She saw that I have my life back on track, with the bike & all, she will know that I will now live my life around all the bike events etc & I know that she has very fond memories of this.
So it would seem that she now wants to make matters a little tuffer for me...or thats the way I see it right now.
