He would suggest that if you are unable to open your woman with your consciousness, if you are too weak or she is too full of fear to relax into the embodiment of love then you have chosen or been chosen by the wrong woman.
Wow, I agree with that whole-heartedly. What's Deida's take on the chicken and eggy aspect of this? Does he think being with a fearful woman will make a man weak or vice versa? I really do think women need to take responsibility for the fear aspect, for their own good if nothing else. Last night I simply told myself "I am confident and curious and nothing but" and I had the pretty much the best date of my entire life. Of course that might have something to do with the fact that my new BF is quite possibly the coolest, nicest guy I have ever dated.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
