I agree with 2moro, if your H really wants to work on the M, then the OW even if it is an EA needs to be out of the picture. My H told me the same EXACT thing for a year and I chose to believe it. He still to this day insists that there was nothing, they were just friends. Not to freak you out, but now he is out of the house, and she is officially his girlfriend. He can never move forward with you, when he has ties to someone else, no matter what he says about their relationship.
