I believe that guys in or from jersey have one problem in common. We believe that the male must be in charge of conversations and we tend to overtalk everything.
Another Jersey guy here in the same boat.
Originally Posted By: sofaraway
Your W is aware that friendship is the core to solid relationships and marriages. Most women are. She is telling you she doesnt want to deal with or think about the R, do you know why? She doesn't know what she wants right now, she hasnt given up on your marriage yet, she's just not sure so talking about your R appears to be encouragement to her and she doesnt want to encourage you about something that may not happen.
My sitch sounds so similar to Willing's. This is great advice and helps to get my head in the right place.
