I have to reply to you i this story made me cry like it was me this hard typing but i had done many things in my marriage wrong that i dont see and was unable tofix my personal probs many which was there before i meant my wife she cheated on me 2 weeks ago and moved out with him last week and still with him on the 1st nite she left she was tring to fix things still and i didnt see how i pushed her away and help creat this prob but the next morning something woke up inside me and i was changed at tehat sec it was something that took time or anything to that affect but you know after me and her talking on the same probs and never getting no where for real she see the chagnes i have made as me begging for her bakc and things to that affect but i have truly fixed my probs and she is not ready to give me a chance adn tring to move on without me and it very hard on me know that today right now after these 2 weeks we would have a even great life than before the fact that my changes seem fake and empty