lac69, I agree that any marriage is "sex-starved" when on spouse is not having their needs met. That is the essence of the problem: what is normal for them is far too much for their partner. I see people here claiming to be "sex-starved" at once or twice a week, and others saying that once a month would make them happy.
There seems to be a lot of subjective selfishness at the root of these conflicts, either by those who expect sex every day, or those who don't see the problem with sex twice a year. There seems to be a lack of sensitivity and caring about others all the way around here in the relationships that are really on the rocks.
