I have been in it from the other side although when I was out I was neither seeing nor living with the former OW. Intially she let me stay in the same room, then she wanted me in the guest room, then she wanted me back in bed, then she wanted me in the guest room.
Point here chicki is if he comes back and wants to talk about things, it would be best if you tell him, I am committed to working it out, but you have to give me time to readjust. We have been through alot of emotinal issues and we need to continue to excersise patientence and persurverance with each other.
In other words, if you want him in bed then bring him in, if you don't then relagate him to a guest room. If you try something and it doesn't feel right or isn't yeilding results then try something else. Hope this helps.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
