Hmmm. Not sure about that one. He wants to believe that this woman is just a friend. Yes he finds her attractive but nothing ever could or would happen he tells me, because she is married and would not be interested in him in that way. So, officially, she is his best friend, nothing more. I can't demand that he stop communicating with his best friend, right?
On the other hand, if he can start to feel like the marriage matters to him, the MC might be able to help him see why this friendship is unhealthy and maybe he will begin to distance himself from her and her problems. I spoke for quite a long time with this MC and he seems to think that we are starting from pretty common ground here. He did not feel like anything needed to happen before we started. I hope he is right.
...still hanging in there!
M - 40 H - 45 (Big Time MLC - Currently House Hopping) S - 11 (w/ Asperger's Syndrome Autism) D - 5 (w/ Type 1 Diabetes) 1 Dog and 2 Cats Married 10/92, Bomb 10/06, H moved out Mother's Day 07 (Sweet huh?)
