Sorry about the long lapse in communication. I am trying to enjoy the summer, perhaps my last here, before having the nuclear discussion in September (thought around the 21st might be appropriate, halfway between day and night).
Spent two weeks with my kids at mother in law's, though I mostly had to work, and now plan to spend a week with my son at my parents'. Wife of course not interested in coming with to either, and I know she took a trip to somewhere while we were gone, but I don't really care anymore. If she wants to work on our marriage, great, but I am ready to call it quits; most anything would be better than this nothingness.
Also looking at changing jobs, 2 offers coming I am told, and upgrading salary. The financial split that occurs when you file here (and I will ask W to pay half of house costs from then on) gives me some pleasure, as she has very little income.
W was incredibly pissed off this morning at me when she couldn't start the new motor on the sailboat, blaming me and all men for the lousy design, etc. When I took over, it started within a few tries. She has no patience and a very short fuse. Never apologized, even after I helped. I continued helping her in spite of the verbal abuse.
Looking forward to a resolution of all this - .
How is your summer? Done anything special? How is your D going? Are you in good spirits?
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.