Yeah, I'm just becoming sceptical about the whole thing now, too. You're right, it is just one excuse after the other.
Truth is, she just clams up whenever I even try to bring up talk about intimacy or sex between her and me - and I don't do that often anymore.
I mean, literally, clams up. She just won't (or can't) respond. And if I push for more talk or ask why she won't talk - bang, there you go, instant argument and *I'm* the villain.
I get ILY's, hugs, kisses, snuggles on the couch watching TV, spooning in bed, etc, etc, just no real intimate/sexual contact or interaction whatsoever.
It's really, really weird. Honestly.
I'm actually almost at the point of walking (I have a discussion in my head about this every single day, but now, instead of viewing walking as a negative thing from my POV, it's gradually turning into a positive), but I don't wanna be a bastard and walk if she's genuinely ill.
I also don't want to jump out of this marriage (which, otherwise, is damned good) and into a new set of issues with someone else.
