For the second Friday night in a row, H has left the house in the middle of the night. The pattern was the same each time. We hung out, had a great evening, had a drink on our porch and then I go to bed. Around 3 AM I wake up with the TV on and H not home. A letter is on the kitchen table - tonight's letter said, I'm sorry I ruined us. The interesting thing about tonight's adventure is that H no longer has a car. He did not take my car on his little escapade. I drove around the neighborhood but did not see him anywhere. He could have taken the train somewhere - but it's more likely that he got picked up. He didn't take a lot with him, as a matter of fact his glasses and contacts are still here. All of his shaving necessities, his hair products, etc...It really looked like he was just stepping out for a little while. Then the light dawned.
This morning when I logged on to our computer the history had been erased. This morning H was also up before me - that's not something that happens often. H also made a trip to work yesterday to pick up some of his things - I'm almost 100% sure that he saw OW. I'm beginning to see a pattern of behavior and I think he may be seeing her...
what do you guys think?
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley
