W and I just finished going all the way through the finances of the divorce settlement. We pulled it off with very little friction. I stayed strong and positive throughout. Overall, a big accomplishment. I'm giving myself hugs.
At the end, she asked "Do you have any questions or comments about anything else?" I said "no", and she just stared at me disconcerted. I guess my total lack of reaction to her incredible assininity with the kids is really messing with her mind. She's forced to deal with her choices internally without the benefit of any anger toward me or my reactions. She's on her own. Right now, I'm pretty happy.
M 63 W 40 M 4/91 S14/D9 bomb 7/6/07 D filed 8/3/07 final 2/4/08 thread