I read most of the thread on "Sex-starved Wives" and find it unbelievable that there are very many. But it was enlightening to see wives complaining about their husbands only being in the mood once a week, when 90% of men are lucky to find their wives in the mood once a month.

So I got to wondering what people consider normal, etc.

1. What do you consider a normal, healthy level of sexual activity for married couples?

2. What do you consider to be minimal acceptable / unacceptable level?

3. What do you consider to be "sex-starved" or sexless marriage?

My answers to my own questions:
1. Twice a week
2. If you go 2 weeks without doing it, and 2 weeks without initiating it, you have a problem, whether you consider yourself to be HD or LD.
3. Anything less than 10 times a year in a negative number. 10 gets you to zero, then you can start counting.