Things have calmed down alot at home since the huge argument (in regards to consent orders and disbursment of assets).
W got really nasty when the lawyers calculated the percentage (assets) in my favour 57-43%. She was going for 70-30%, then 60-40%, then we finally agreed on 50-50%.
I don't think it was ever about the money, more about hurting me. I still think that she is so angry with me for neglecting her (emotionally) for the last 12 months, and with my work as well.
She also wants the family dog (who I picked and bought and cared for (majority) over the last 12 years. He is with my parents at the moment due to waiting to get the neighbours to put up a retaining wall for a side fence (waiting 8 months) at our new place. She did not want him around for so many years and now she wants him, go figure.
Looks like her R with OM is going well. The funny thing is that she does not spend any nights at his place (he lives 5 minutes away). She always ends up coming home in the early hours of the morning. Don't know why you wouldn't spend the night if you are in a PA.
Anyway, that is my update, hope all you are doing better in your respective sitches.
