Love yourself enough to walk away. Love yourself enough to set up boundaries and ignore the spew your sick, sick husband throws your way.

You are valuable NOW. Not after counseling. Your H is looking for you to fill him up, and that's just not possible. Only he can do that.

We do not do things randomly. There is a payoff for *every* action we take even if we aren't aware of it and the action is destructive. What is your payoff for staying with your H?

Even the Bible says you do not have to stay with an abuser or adulterer...you are a child of God. Love yourself enough to stop the abuse.

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!