I did blast him and it only made him put on his track shoes

I firmly believe..that when i figured out to shut the f'ck up and be still....is when he started to turn around. I removed the raging bitch from the picture ...he could no longer blame me for his misery. Of course OW took my place as the raging bitch...that helped. I made it safe for him to approach me. I made it safe for him to ask to come home. to do that i had let the anger go and offered total forgiveness actually i had forgiven him before he ever asked to come back.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest