I know that is true, but what if he never realizes what an absolute jerk he has been? and continues to be????

He is the one who lacks the ability to be a good parent? He is Disney dad and sweeps in every once in a while putting his 2 cents in and thinks he this makes him a good dad. In the meantime I am the one here on a DAILY basis being a mom to OUR d7. Dealing with all the CRAP! It's so frustrating... Crap HE created because he LEFT!! Our d wouldn't be having these insecurity issues if he wouldn't have left.... I would bet my last dollar on that!!!

Didn't you ever blast your H sometimes when he was gone? Do you think it did any good? If not, then what did you do that finally made him wakeup?

K