How can I handle these situations because everytime she calls to ask about something else she always throws in something about how it will never work out.
It is really hard on all of us to hear some of the things that WAS's throw at us & it hurts.
As long as you go blow by blow in dealing with it though, your reactions will be scattered & prolly take you where you don't want to go.
I know the "As if" article is a long one, & reading up on others threads takes time, but if you don't proactively go after the "behind the scenes" mindset of a WAS, you will be at a disadvantage for sure, because they will be contantly triggering you.
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Should I stop answering her calls or cut her off when she starts talking about the relationship?
You did agree to 1 month, so you could easily let her calls go to VM, at least for a few days.
If you read some of the other threads, you'll hear how others have responded to the "give me a divorce" statement so popular with WAS's.
Also, read the Castle analogy Nomo posted. That gives you a good guideline.
