So even though my wife and I agreed to 1 month of no contact to see what happens with my wife's feelings towards me, she called me today to ask me questions about finances. I had no problem with answering her question without talking about anything else, but she said "I don't think things are going to work out between us, why don't you let me go and give me a divorce."

I probably didn't handle it properly by saying "I thought we had agreed to give it a month to see what happens." She said okay we'll give it a month.

How can I handle these situations because everytime she calls to ask about something else she always throws in something about how it will never work out.

Should I stop answering her calls or cut her off when she starts talking about the relationship?

Can anything possibly work out between us when she has this bad of an attitude towards our relationship?

Any help would be greatly appreciated.


M - 10 yrs
Together - 12 yrs
Bomb - 3/8/07
Sep - 3/9/07
Me - 38
W - 42