Well....it's done. I am so glad I talked to them last night. It was very smooth w/H. He said idiotic things as was expected. He told kids he loved me, but not the same way - ewwwww. They asked him when he would start dating and he said "I don't know." I wanted to say "Try about October of last year!!!". He told them it would be a long time....his pants must have been on fire!
I said nothing. I let him talk his way around everything. It was easier for him b/c the kids were prepared. That pisses me off, BUT it was easier for the kids b/c they had already had the emotional reactions w/me and they felt comfortable with that. Both the boys told me they were relieved that I told them last night.
The other twin told me that he knew what his brother and I talked about last night (i.e. condoms). He said he and his brother had talked about their dad having an affair. He told me that he was "kind of" ready for me to start dating b/c he missed having a man around like their dad used to be. Sigggghhhhh.
I said "I don't have to date to have guy friends that we can hang around with!"
So, that part is done. They went with H to spend the night. Not sure what I'll do. Right now, I'm just feeling a little sorry for myself. I'll jump up soon and start moving forward!
Hope all is well with everyone!
Me-BS 38 X-WS 36 Separated 11/15/2006 Filed for D 8/1/2007 Divorce Final 12/21/2007 S13, S13 (twins), D9 Married 13 Yrs Together 20 Yrs
